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What's the last thing that you said to yourself?
Hey.
This week I've been getting several questions about mental health & mindset.
How we perceive and deal with the world is a huge part of how we manage ourselves in it.
Even after wandering the planet for 40+ years, a surprising number of people speak to themselves as if they don't deserve to be here. What makes this worse is I've seen this antipathy spread to children & family, leading to destructive & damaging situations.
I just want to remind you to be kind to yourself. The better you treat yourself, the better you'll do for yourself, & the better you'll treat others.
We often frame our lives with the way that we talk to ourselves.
When we engage in positive self-talk, we start to view the work more positively, & ultimately ourselves too. We can't always control what happens, but we do get to choose how we respond.
11. Internal locus of control
This was huge for me.
Realising that I’m in control of how I choose to respond to any situation.
— Dr Kpakpo (@DrKpakpoAcquaye)
1:27 PM • Sep 21, 2022
Positive self-talk and a more optimistic outlook can have other health benefits, including:
increased vitality
greater life satisfaction
improved immune function
reduced pain
better cardiovascular health
better physical well-being
reduced risk for death
less stress and distress
This is a no brainer. Getting control of your brain and your thinking is a major part of getting control of any part of your life.
Have you had any serious challenges with negative self talk or negative thinking?
How can I help?
I'm reading every reply.
To your best health,
Dr Kpakpo